The Wingman Method
Are You Struggling to Create Success in Your Marriage?
Believe it or not, ditching the "Happy Wife Happy Life" will help...
Whether or not your wife has transformed or not from coaching there’s some key ways to increase your intimacy and connection in your marriage. If your wife has made some recent changes then it has likely created some disconnect and discontent in the relationship. Yes. It’s different for every relationship. It’s easy to compare the inadequacies in our marriage to what we think we see in other relationships. Years ago I was looking for answers as well…
One of many of my problems was trying to live by this "Happy Wife Happy Life" mantra. It was my perception that my wife was "never" happy. If she was "elevated" or "expressive" I translated this as unhappy. I seemingly tried everything to avoid, anticipate and alleviate this part of her because of what I made it mean – I was not happy. This is just one example where we can go wrong as men. I can explain how the tools can lift this pressure to make her "happy all of the time" so that you can have a "happy life". We’re going to ditch this…
It was Christmas Eve 2012 and my wife Amber and I had a mild argument. I have no idea what about but I left her parent’s home in Arizona. I was throwing a mild tantrum and was tempted to drive home to Utah. "That will show her" I thought. I decided I’d only have to drive back to pick up my family so I ruled that out as a dumb idea. My health wasn’t great. My finances were a wreck from a lawsuit and leaving keys on the counter of our home and spiritually I wasn’t doing my part. I was over-worked and exhausted. No matter how hard I worked I couldn’t seem to put some momentum together long enough to make real progress. In the Arizona desert I was having a major pity party. I refer to it now as "my dark night" where I wrestled with ending things. Ultimately it was the thought of my kids that saved me. I couldn’t quit on them.
I decided that night that things had to change. Through a process of self-discovery, trial and error, and incredible coaching, I’ve been unlocking a new version of myself that I never knew was inside. I had quit so many times looking for "the right" path and almost quit on it all. Step by step I built the life I never could have imagined, a life full of adventure and excitement and joy. I became the best version of myself, and dedicated the rest of my life to showing others how it was done.
I used the success I created with my health and career to bridge back to my marriage. I’m still learning as I enter new seasons of life but what I have created is helping men circle back for everything that’s important to them in a way that still feels manly. No matter how bad things may seem right now we can turn everything into your "good ole days" story. This process works.
The Wingman Foundations Program
Yes this is just a "funny thought" meant to tempt the logical side but it’s also true. The solution is more than a "dad joke" of keeping her around. Perhaps she’s just keeping you around…regardless, the Wingman Foundations Playbook is a simple approach and introduction to helping you catch up with some of the tools and processes your wife has been using to get better results in her life.
You can do this
Imagine knowing, with certainty, what you want to make of your life. Imagine how it would feel to wake up each day with that clarity. How would you carry yourself? How would you treat those around you? How would you view the world?
Now imagine that you not only knew what you wanted, but you were making it happen. You were motivated, each and every day, to make progress toward your goals, no matter what stood in your way. Imagine having that type of ability for the rest of your life. With a coach, with a plan, it’s all possible.
From Roommate Syndrome To Intimate Connections
Working through the little things is not comfortable but these new tools will help you show up different which ensures different results.
Success In Your Home Pays Off Outside The Home
If home life is something you’re avoiding by overworking, your hobbies, or by wasting time let’s create some new confidence and success here…it will spill over into everything else too. I promise.
Join the 2% Club - Love & Real Connection
Show yourself, your wife, your kids & everyone around you what’s possible by being the example and figuring this out with your wife. Most marriages don’t have these tools and most marriages don’t know what they’re missing out on…yet. Let’s show them.
Are You Ready to Take the First Step?
At this point, you can follow one of two paths. First, you can move on without clicking the button below and continue doing what you’ve always done. And, chances are, you’ll continue getting what you’ve always gotten. You can continue to struggle with your wife, your goals and dreams and face the challenges alone.
Or you can choose the second path.
You can choose to do something different, to stop trying to figure this out all by yourself and instead follow the lead of someone who has already figured out how to achieve the very things you want so badly. You know where you’ll be in a year if you choose to do nothing, but there’s no telling how far you’ll go in life with a Wingman by your side, guiding you every step of the way.
If you’re ready to change your life, I invite you to choose the second path, click the button below, and take the first step toward a bigger, brighter tomorrow.
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